# About Jeff & Fathers of Autistic Kids

Hi, I'm Jeff. I'm a father of 6-year-old twins in Cape Town, South Africa. One is neurotypical, one has autism.

When we first noticed the signs, I felt completely unprepared. Every resource I found was written for mothers - endless forum threads, generic advice, and "trust your instincts" guidance that left me more confused than helped.

As a father, I needed something different: systematic, actionable, step-by-step resources that told me exactly what to do.

 So I built what I couldn't find.

# My Background

I'm not a therapist or medical professional - I'm a father in the trenches who happens to have unique expertise:

• Father of 6-year-old twins (one with ASD Level 2, one neurotypical)
• Finance professional with 15+ years experience in corporate finance
• Real estate investor who understands financial planning and asset protection
• Business systems expert  who builds structured, actionable organisation frameworks

I combine lived experience with professional expertise to create resources that actually work for fathers.

## Why Fathers Need Different Resources

After diagnosis, I discovered a frustrating truth: almost all autism resources are created for mothers. Fathers process information differently. We need:  

• Clear steps, not vague suggestions
• Actionable plans, not emotional support groups 
• Systematic frameworks, not "trust your instincts"
• Evidence-based guidance, not anecdotal forum threads

Most importantly, we need resources from someone who actually gets what it's like to be a father trying to figure this out while managing work, marriage, and the overwhelming responsibility of getting this right. 

That's what I've built here - practical, systematic resources that speak directly to how fathers think and operate.

## What You'll Find Here

Comprehensive guides built like business systems - not vague advice, but clear steps and documented processes you can follow immediately: 

Current Available:

• The Father's Guide to Early Autism Detection - Recognizing the signs, taking action, and getting help when you suspect autism

Coming Soon:

• Navigating the diagnosis process and evaluation system
• Financial planning for autism families (therapy costs, insurance, long-term planning)
• Marriage survival strategies (protecting your relationship during the hardest phase)
• Behavioral and sensory support frameworks (what actually works at home)
• School advocacy and IEP navigation (getting your child proper support)
• The twin dad's guide (managing both an autistic and neurotypical child) 

Each guide combines:

• My lived experience as a twin dad
• Professional expertise in finance and systems
• Evidence-based approaches that work
• Action steps you can implement today

Because "trust your instincts" isn't enough when your child's future is at stake.

## Important Disclaimer

I am not a medical professional, therapist, or clinician. I'm a father sharing the resources, frameworks, and insights I've gathered through my own journey with autism.

**This is not medical advice.** Always consult qualified healthcare professionals for diagnosis, treatment, and medical decisions regarding your child.

These guides are meant to complement - not replace - professional medical guidance.

Early detection changes outcomes. Let's give you the tools to act.

— Jeff  

Father of twins, autism advocate, and builder of resources fathers actually need